What’s up all my real 100s! It’s the first edition of my new segment Ask Chris. You can contact me on any of my social media outlets and ask me a question and I’ll respond! Today’s question comes all the way from Missouri!
“Dear Chris, I need a blog on what you do when you fall for a guy that is already married but has told u several times he wants to divorce her. Yes, we’ve kissed. But I really like him. I briefly considered not moving cuz of this guy. Honestly, I’m not a homewrecker. This is the first married man I have gotten involved with.”
Ok my fellow real 100, first off, I’m not here to judge you. This is strictly my opinion, but you know I’m a keep it 100 with you. These things never end well. What is he really doing for you, for you to fall for him? Stealing little moments away, can’t call after a certain time, the sneaking around…It all gets real old, really quick. If a man wants to make you his number one, you will be. He’d stop telling you he’s “going to” divorce her and it would be done. He’s not gonna leave her, they rarely do. If he will do this to her, his wife, someone he (once) loved and took vows with, what will he do to you? If his marriage is that horrible, why hasn’t he already divorced her before trying to step to you? If it were me, I wouldn’t stop my plans for him, because he’s definitely not stopping his life for you. You deserve better than this. And you ARE better than this. Imagine if it were you. How would you feel about your husband/boyfriend kissing another woman? Sometimes you have to take yourself out of your own feelings and put yourself in hers. It’s ok to be selfish and do things to make YOU happy at times but not when it comes to someone else’s union. This is just my opinion. I have to say it straight forward so hopefully you’ll take a step back and get a good look at the situation. I hope this helps. It’s never a good thing being someone’s side ANYTHING. It appears cute in songs, but even when you strip it down to real life, it’s an unnecessary and sad situation. Good luck to you and thanks for keeping it 100 with me!
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