Hey what’s up my 100s!!! I’ve gotten an overwhelming response to my Cheaters blog. So before we move on to the next blog, we’re gonna expand on this one. So our question today comes all the from Virginia!
“Dear Chris, So I read your Cheaters Blog and it truly got me to thinking. I have suspected my boyfriend of cheating on me for months now. Now please don’t think I’m stalker crazy, but he always goes into another room to talk on the phone. So I try my best to listen. He also has his phone on super tight security and I’m not allowed to go through it at all. I even found a condom underneath my bed. He swears I’m paranoid and the condom was from us. He’s starting to make me feel like I’m crazy, but my gut tells me I’m not wrong. In some instances, it seems like he’s pulling away from me. I don’t know. What do you think? Please tell me something.”
Ok, first of all my fellow 100, I’m glad you enjoyed my blog.Thank you so much for reading. Second, I do not think you’re crazy. Take it from someone who’s been there. To be honest, I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum, meaning, I’ve been wrong and right about my suspicions of my other half cheating. So if you suspect something, do not let your intuition run wild and drive you crazy because it will. So on one hand, you have to be prepared that you may actually be wrong. Talk to him, let him know you wanna talk on a serious note, no bullshit. Keep it 100(no pun intended) with each other. If you’re wrong then that’s a slight relief, however whatever led you to your suspicions need to be addressed as well. I personally don’t believe in the whole extra tight security on the phone. Loosen that grip dude! He can leave it locked, just give up that code ;) As for the condom, is it possible that it could have been from ya’ll? In the heat of the moment, stuff gets thrown anywhere. lol As for the distance, talk about that too. You never wanna feel like that. Communication is key. BUT…if you get enough evidence to prove that what you’re experiencing is indeed an actual jackass move on his part…... Then same rules apply. Don’t play games, bring it to him straight. I’m not gonna say leave him, that is entirely up to you. But he needs to know that going around showing his ass or in this case his dick to everybody or whoever, will not be tolerated! If he can’t agree to an exclusive monogamous relationship then you’ll have to decide at that point if this is something YOU’RE willing to accept and go from there. These things can be tricky but you have to follow your heart and always remember your worth! Good luck to you and thanks for keeping it 100 with me!
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