Ladies/Gentlemen

What’s up ya’ll! Let’s keep it 100 for the last week of May! So in my own normal fashion…when I hear or see something that intrigues me, I MUST speak out on it. So as it stands, same sex couples are able to marry and share the same benefits as any other couple. Transgenders are able to walk freely (for the most part) and are becoming more accepted every day. The term “gay” is becoming the new normal. Hell they’re even trying to turn Captain America gay…lol… So why is it an issue that, transgenders shouldn’t be able to use the restroom of the gender they identify with? They have been doing it for YEARS. And now because it’s been brought to the light it’s an issue!?!?! I’m sorry, it’s dumb as fuck, that’s my opinion and you’re entitled to yours.

No matter how much of a big step the LGBT community takes, there is always something trying to knock us back. It’s always SOMETHING! But here’s the gotcha, of course I would expect people who are against this community to object, but there are people who “allegedly” pro-gay that object as well. So this is what I have to say, and I’m sure I’ll ruffle some feathers. All these women, fag-hags and gay-lovers that have a problem with it, how are you pro-gay and pro-equality when you have a problem with a transgender using a restroom! Do you think if a woman transitioned into a man that men would have a problem with it????? NO! Men don’t give a fuck! So why it is that, if a man transitions into a woman, that you’d have a problem with them using the women’s restroom???? It ain’t like there are urinals in there!!! Like I said, it’s dumb as fuck, but that’s my opinion. And don’t bring the kids into this, I’m sure there are plenty of things your kids shouldn’t witness under your parental guidance but that doesn’t make you a bad parent! Kids don’t see this shit, all they see is a woman going into a stale and (hopefully) coming out and washing her hands. BIG FUCKING WHOOP!

You know what I’ve come to the conclusion of, women who have a problem with it, really aren’t ok with gays as they appear. Underneath it all, there’s an underlining disgust or/and hatred for gays. You think we’re trying to steal your men and corrupt your kids. Girl bye! Stop pretending!! Please, we have enough people firing off against us, we don’t need FAKE supports as well! Please cut that shit out and keep it 100!

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http://www.mydoorsign.com/unisex-restroom-signs

Moment for Life...

I wanna start off by saying, RIP to my stepdad. It’s been a year today since you’ve left us and went home to glory…… In 2006, I entered college, a young 18 year old with money and men on my mind. I took a math class that I ended up failing. Not because it was too difficult but because I didn't even try. Over the years, I had to wait to get back in school because being under the age of 24 with no spouse or children, I was considered a "depended" to the eyes of financial aid. So without help, I decided to sit, be patient and wait on God. When I turned 24, I was ready to hit the ground running! FSCJ made me jump through hoops, but I blew my first semester out the water with straight A's. But my past came back to bite me in the ass and I had to sit out another year after my successful one. When I tell you, I wanted my education SO bad, I was given a chance to show that I mean business and it STILL wasn't good enough. So God blessed us and we were able to pay for me to retake the math class I failed out of pocket and I passed it with an A. I've been focused and determined ever since. But that doesn't mean my road got easier. There were many times I wanted to give up, some days I thought, "this shit is just too fucking hard". But I pushed through. My husband and God alone were the only driving forces in my success. Because when I was ready to say FUCK IT ALL, God kept me going and my husband lit a fire in me that forced my determination.

I wish I could say this achievement has been met with overwhelming love and support. There has been haters along the way that have wished ill on us. There has been family along the way that has tried to diminish the importance of this accomplishment. There is friends that have pretended to wish us well, and have turned their backs on us. What the fuck is wrong with you people? You know what I have to say about all that...FUCK IT. My husband is the strongest man I know. And I am so overwhelming proud of him. Even more than myself. We both deserve to be celebrated and met with an overload of positive responses from the people around us. Again, what the fuck is wrong with you people? Everyone wants to attend a graduation party, but don't wanna put up no funds! Don't wanna get out of themselves and put something together!?! GIRL/BOY BYE!!! I personally reached out to people letting them know about this event, date/time/place. I will not chase anyone to be there. Either you will or you won't. I'm not sending a reminder text. If you're getting married, do you send a reminder text to your guests? Thought not... Again...sorry-I ain't sorry! When you hurt me, you only end up hurting yourself....Shout out to my brother for really wanting to be there but unable to. Love ya bro!

I don't mean to get long winded, but I just wanna say this to my husband. Between you and I, we are the FIRST of our parents' children to graduate with a degree. I hope the rest of our siblings will follow suit eventually. But for now, it's just us. We got each other through, and I am proud to walk this stage with you. You are an incredible man. You encouraged me when no one else did. You believed in when I didn't believe in myself. I love you so much. Thank you for putting up with my attitude and those hard moments. I honestly couldn't have done it without you. This one's for you baby! We both deserve to live in this moment and be happy, no matter who's there... And that's keeping it 100!!

Girl Talk: Strokes

What's up to all my girls keeping it 100 wit me! It's been a while since we've sat with some cocktails and had a little girl's talk. I think it's way overdue, don't you? So before I begin, anyone new to the girl talks? If you're not familiar with this particular segment and get offended by sexual content, this ain't the place for you boo...Go back and take another spin on Run Its Course Pt. 3 lol Now that that's out the way, let's talk...

So as many of you know by now, The Game has been posting his #Meatprintpapi and #FineniggaFriday pictures. And boy can I say....that man has some meat on HIM!!! Well there was one post in particular where he made us count the strokes. So since then I've been wondering....have any of you counted the strokes before? How many is good enough? He said 20 long hard strokes...is that too many? Or not enough? Let's dive in...

So after your job has stressed you the fuck out, you come home after a long day. Your man is waiting for you, y'all chill, eat and take a shower (because a shitty ass, smelly balls, funky dick and stinky puss ain't cute) It's time for him to lay the pipe. He kissing the right spots, you're moaning like crazy. And just like that, he's in that thing. He hitting that daddy long stroke, pulling out to the head and sliding in as deep as he can go. How many strokes is good enough? Let's say he hit you with the 20 and then he cums. You good with that? Is 20 hard good strokes enough to make the river flow? Is it too many? Wait...before I continue with that....I think anything less than 20 is just fucking unacceptable....so we won't go there. Can you make due with 20? Or should it be 30? 50? Have you ever even counted?

Now I'll be honest, the next scenerio is me...so he daddy long stroking that thing. Dick so good and hitting the right spots you can barely moan his name out! He slide in deep, rubbing, sucking and kissing, just driving you fucking insane...next thing you know...y'all both reach the peak and cum together! Shit...damn dick was so good, you ain't have time to count! Or maybe lost count somewhere around 22....lol

Just a thought. Do you count? If you do, how many is good enough? Let's keep the girl talk going and remember if you're reading we're all freaks, keep it 100!!!

Run its Course Pt 3 (I Ain't Sorry)

In my absence, I’ve had questions wondering when I would return to the Blog. There were times I wondered if my blog hadrun its course. BUT….my creative writing class, reminded me that I have more things to write about! The only way I will be successful is to continue to make it fun for me. Because when it’s not fun for me, it comes off as not genuine and when I’m not genuine, I’m not keeping it 100. 

So with that being said, let me do what I do best. About a month or so ago, I was ready to give up on any friendship that didn’t hold a current “active” status in my life. And I wasn’t fucking with new friendships either. I had become a pessimist. But my husband said something that put me in check. I haven’t made a huge effort to be a part of anyone’s life. But I also felt like it wasn’t reciprocated. So I decided I wanted to rebuild certainfriendships again. The people I used to go out with, let’s go! You wanna do lunch? If I’m not broke, let’s go lol. Let’s go get this mani and pedi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m just tired of the “let’s get together” and then it doesn’t happen. I’m tired of being someone’s listening ear for the juice and drama in their life, but when shit all good, my phone got desert dick. I will make time for those who make time for me and who wants to put in effort. I don’t need to hang out every day, but for fucks sake, once a month isn’t unrealistic. I actually did a test, I had a friend I was reaching out to every morning, and every morning we’d chat back and forth. Then I wondered, would these morning chats happen if I don’t initiate??? So I stopped. That was a month ago, she hasn’t written me yet. And we live so damn close, it stupid ridiculous.

Another thing… why is it that when you have friends you meet at work; the bond seems so strong that you could be friends FOREVER. But when you no longer work together it’s like……..**crickets**** Damn you change your number and don’t give to me. How could we have “loved” each other like we say? How could we have meant that much to each other, if we don’t care to try? Was Convergys/Citi/ADT/AT&T our only connection? I don’t know…maybe so….who knows…

What I do know is…I want real people around me. My life is transitioning into the next phase of my life. And I want like-minded people around me. People with goals and love to livelife. I should be able to go to the movies and concerts with my friends, not just my husband. I’m not here to cry friend, let a bitch vent. lol I realize some people aren’t meant to be there for certain season in your life. And I’m fine with that, I just don’t wanna give up on friendships prematurely. Because I’m too old to be talking about “It ain’t nothing to cut that bitch off!” lmao. I’m too grown for that bullshit. 

I love the people in my life right now, I just want the RIGHT people in my life… and that’s me keeping it 100!